Five biggest mistakes to make in a marriage

They say that women are responsible for their marriages. And that's all because women are wiser, more patient and flexible. "What a fool has come up with that" you will ask. Well, women, actually. And now they are again having major problems if their marriages all of a sudden stop working. So what should poor girls do to save families and feel comfortable boasting that they are responsible for their own happiness? Smile all the time, be tender, talk to the spouse a lot, give birth to children and develop as a personality. Not bad. But what if you have done all that hundreds of times (except childbirth of course), but it still isn't perfect and you see that your second half would better go to football than stay at home. SOS will not help here. You have to analyze. Analyze what mistakes you could have made.

Mistake #1. The biggest mistake. You are cheating or have cheated on your spouse. Sure, he will never know. And it all was so wrong. The thing here is if he really won't get to know, he will feel your tension. It's almost psychology here. He will know, somewhere deep in his heart. Another thing is when he knows. Good, if you told that yourself, you can maybe hope for reconciliation. All in all, he might forgive you, but he will never forget about it.

Mistake #2. You don't like his friends or relatives. Even worse – your man has a hobby which you hate and don't hide it. If you want to be a part of his life you have to make friends with his friends. Or at least try to pretend that you like them and are happy to see twice a week. That won't do you any harm, but will definitely save your nerves.

Mistake #3. You are overloading him with chores. It is awful when a girl has to deal with all home stuff on her own. Men do not care most of the time, but you are getting so furious when he walks on a perfectly cleaned floor with his dirty shoes. There is no point in yelling here, it will not make any sense. You will be surprised but a nice word will make a magic. Conclusion: be nice and treat your husband as a person, not a slave.

Mistake #4. You are scandalous. Your husband hasn't returned form work yet, but you have already called his mobile and left three messages all ending in "How could you not throw the garbage out/ call school/ drop kids to Grannies" (the list can be endless). Take a minute and think – would you like to come back home where you can be criticized for everything.

Mistake #5. You are trying to make him believe that your point of view is the only correct. Always. Moreover, you want him to make best friends with your girlfriends and mother, while you will not stop calling his friends not wanted people in your house (see mistake 2).

Mistakes girls make can result in a huge list. Surprised? No doubt you are an angel who does its best to be an outstanding wife. And it's awesome if you have never done any of the above. Still if you have (and let's be honest we all are not saint) a "must to do" is to realize all mistakes you've made and try to avoid them in future. And live happy ever after!