Don't do it!

If you want to have a peaceful and caring family, where mutual respect and understanding play their roles, look at some ideas of what NOT to do to destroy it:

#1. Pout and be naughty. In a normal family all responsibilities are divided equally within the members of a family, without any gender differentiation. Only a bride can let herself pout and be capricious about any tiny thing, but a smart woman, who is already a wife will never allow herself to be naughty.

#2. Criticize. To be exact, criticize your husband. And to be more exact, not to criticize him in pubic, but not to criticize when you are on your own as well, meaning never. Nothing else can make a man so furious in just a minute, like being criticized. For him it means that you are doubting his outstanding performing or absolutely charming character. Think twice before criticizing and try to finish up with some pleasant phrase or even a compliment.

#3. Scandals. Quarrelling and bursting into tears have two sides of a medal. If to use them smartly, you can achieve great results and vice versa, you can make your home an eternal battle. It's up to you to decide when to apply them. They are good to use when the issue is really big, like his not wanting to go to your Mom's Birthday. And remember that there can only be a couple of such scandals a year, otherwise your spouse will get used to them and stop paying them decent attention.

#4. Stop talking. Quarrels or some misunderstandings are quite common in family life. The relationship between a man and a woman is actually impossible without them. Still, a wise woman will never leave reconciliation till the morning. To sleep over a night with bad thoughts means to create a micro hole in your relations. It's like a dead end, the only way out of which is divorce.

#5. Sex decline for punishment. It is that silly, that should be left without further comments.

#6. Wait that your husband will stick to all these rules. It happens that a man in a marriage will pout and quarrel, and be capricious, trying not to talk to you for days, but you will survive it and make your family strong and happy. And the reason is that a family is a great achievement of patient people, who are ready to self-sacrifice. Marriage lies on a woman's shoulders. Only you are able to make your marriage work the way you dreamed about. A man in a marriage is a condition. Like a bonus. Or a birthday present, who makes you delicious coffee in the morning, gives you flowers and silk boxes with gorgeous lingerie. He prefers white gold and diamonds and is willing to give the whole world to his beautiful spouse as she deserves that. And you do deserve it, don't you?